5 Signs Your Parent Needs More Than Family Home Care

There comes a time in many families when looking after an aging parent is not something you can fit in around your day. It turns into the day. Somebody needs to remind Dad to take his medicine. Mom needs an arm to get out of bed. A bath that used to take ten minutes now takes an hour because everyone is afraid of falling.

Not all of these changes require your parent to be hospitalized. What they often need is a little more help at home and sometimes that help is best given by a trained caregiver or nurse.

The difficult part is knowing when help from family is no longer enough. Look for these five signs.

1. Things are taking a lot longer than they used to.

Aging doesn’t mean losing independence by default. But if normal activities are becoming more difficult – getting out of bed, walking to the bathroom, bathing, dressing, eating or moving around the house – it’s worth investigating what has changed.

Maybe your parent can still do everything, but only if someone is there. They may need help getting out of a chair. Maybe they are afraid of slipping and are avoiding the bathroom.

This is where home care for the elderly can make a real difference. The idea is not to do all jobs. Good home care should help a person stay as independent as possible, while making the hard parts safer.

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2. Medicines are a daily battle

Medication management is one of those things that families often underestimate. Simple enough, one tablet in the morning. Then there’s another after lunch, one before dinner, something that has to be taken only when needed and a prescription that changes after the next doctor’s appointment.

If your parent is forgetting doses, taking them twice, confusing tablets or depending on different family members to remember what has been given, then this is an indication that the current arrangement needs more structure.

A home nurse or trained caregiver can assist with the routine, but the doctor who orders the treatment plan is ultimately accountable. Never change a medicine or dose when caring for someone at home without medical advice.
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3. There’s been a fall — or a ‘near fall’ — nobody is talking about

A fall doesn’t always lead to a dramatic injury. Sometimes the story is 'She slipped but caught the table.' Or 'He lost his balance but didn't fall over.' Families will write off these moments as no one got hurt.
They count.

A near fall is a possible sign that you need to pay attention to your balance, strength, vision, footwear, medication effects or home environment. If your parent has developed a fear of walking alone, that fear can itself diminish activity and make them less confident.

Talk to the treating doctor about the situation, especially after a fall or repeated near falls. Professional support at home can also help with safe mobility and supervision while the family works out what needs to change.

4. Personal care begins to slip

This is often one of the most difficult signs for a family to spot because it is personal. Your parent may stop bathing regularly or wear the same clothes for a number of days. They may have difficulty toileting or require assistance with changing clothes or managing continence.

And this is easy to see as obstinacy. Sometimes it is not. When pain, weakness, poor balance, memory problems or just plain exhaustion are factors, personal care can seem like an enormous task.

A trained caregiver can help with everyday personal care, whilst maintaining privacy and dignity. Nursing support may be more appropriate in some cases, particularly where there are wounds, catheters, feeding tubes, injections or other clinical needs.
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5. When no one is at home, the family is always worried

This is probably the most obvious sign – not something that your parent does but something that is happening to everyone else around them.

You're at work and wonder if Dad has eaten. Your sister calls you twice in the afternoons. Someone has to change their plans because Mom can’t be left alone. A family member begins to suffer from poor sleep because they are listening out for any movement in the next room.

More family effort is not necessarily the answer when the care is a constant source of anxiety. Sometimes it’s professional help.
Having a nurse or caregiver at home for agreed hours can give the family a reliable pair of hands without making the parent feel as though they have lost control of their own life.

Nurse or caregiver, what does your parent really need?

The terms are often used interchangeably but the roles can be different.

A caregiver or attendant is normally well-equipped to provide non-clinical day-to-day assistance such as bathing, dressing, feeding, mobility support, companionship and basic household support around the patient.

A nurse is suitable where the person has clinical care needs requiring nursing skills or medical monitoring. This could be wound care, catheter care, injections, tube care, vital monitoring or post-hospital nursing depending on the doctor’s orders.

If you don’t know, start with what’s actually happening, rather than picking a job title. Let the care provider know what your parents can and can't do, what medical procedures are involved and how many hours of support your parents need.

Sometimes the need begins after a hospital discharge

And although they may appear stable enough to leave hospital, a parent may need a great deal of help in the next few weeks. Suddenly, getting in and out of bed, walking safely, bathing, taking new medications on schedule, and attending follow-up appointments can all become difficult.

That’s why posthospital care in the home needs to be planned prior to the patient walking through the front door. Consider the bed, access to the bathroom, meals, medicines, mobility, wound care and who will be around in the daytime.

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Don’t wait until there is a crisis to begin the conversation

Often families wait until a fall, an emergency hospital visit, or an exhausted caregiver finally says, “We cannot keep doing this” before they arrange elder care.

There should be no question of that.

Sometimes, you just need some hours of professional help. In some cases a parent may require day care on a regular basis, or 12- or 24-hour nursing. The proper amount is that which preserves the person’s safety but does not take away independence more than is necessary.

The goal is support, not takeover

The best home care doesn’t make an elder feel like a patient every minute of the day. It gives them help where they need it and space where they don’t.

Let your parent pick out their clothes. Let them choose what they want for breakfast. Encourage them to walk when safe, instead of doing everything for them. Professional care should help people to remain independent, not hinder them.

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How to Find Out What Type of Elder Care Your Parent Requires

Write down what is actually happening for one typical day before booking anything.

• What can your parent do on his or her own?

• What jobs require supervision or physical assistance?

• Are there medicines requiring support?

• Did a fall or near-fall occur?

• Wounds, catheters, feeding tubes or other clinical needs?

• What realistic number of hours can the family provide?

• Is the need temporary (e.g. post-op) or long-term?

This simple list makes it easier to match your parent with the level of care they need.

When to call a doctor instead of planning routine home care

Home care is helpful to many non-emergency needs, but is not a substitute for emergency medical treatment. If your parent has trouble breathing, chest pain, loss of consciousness, heavy bleeding, a serious injury from a fall, or any other sudden emergency, call 911 or get emergency medical care right away.

If the symptoms are new or getting worse, and not an emergency, contact the treating doctor and explain what has changed. The doctor may then suggest a home visit, tests, nursing support or hospital assessment.

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Medical Disclaimer

This article is intended for general educational purposes and does not replace medical advice from a qualified doctor or healthcare professional. A patient's care requirements should be assessed individually. Home nursing and bedside care are not substitutes for emergency medical treatment. If your parent develops severe or potentially life-threatening symptoms, seek emergency medical attention.